“You know how every once in a while you do something and the little voice inside says ‘There. That’s it. That’s why you’re here’ … and you get a warm glow in your heart because you know it’s true? Do more of that.”
— Jacob Nordby
“You know how every once in a while you do something and the little voice inside says ‘There. That’s it. That’s why you’re here’ … and you get a warm glow in your heart because you know it’s true? Do more of that.”
— Jacob Nordby
Kinda in love with the idea that different places on other sides of the world can look so similar. Something something universal human experiences
"But she gave birth to you, you owe her!"
My mother wanted to be a mother. It was her dream to be a mother. She poured all her energy into being a Good Christian Mother.
She did not want me. She wanted motherhood. I was a side effect of her dream. Once I was old enough to disagree with her, she hated me. I wasn't making her look like a Good Christian Mother. I was loud, disobedient, needy... almost like a child. Not quiet and pretty and grateful for crumbs.
Yes, she birthed me. For herself and her partner. For the people who were already born. Not for me. As all mothers have for all of time. It's not the birthing that makes a mother worth honoring, it's the parenting.
QFT:
It's not the birthing that makes a mother worth honoring, it's the parenting.
I’m pretty sure mine had kids because That’s What You Do. You get married and you have kids.
You’d think she’d have figured out after the first one that she didn’t like having kids but nope, there was A Plan and she executed it.